dear 18-year-old self ...

the other day i was thinking about
all of the little things i wish i
would've known years ago ...
things that maybe would've
helped me worry less or
made just a little bit of
a difference along the way.

& because I am obviously an over-sharer...
here's my list, in no particular order...


10 things I would tell my 18-year-old self:

1* don't take yourself so seriously ...

 no one else does, so cut yourself some slack.

2* your first born will weigh 11 lbs. 8 oz. ...

start using stretch mark cream NOW!!!

3* a store will open ... its name is target...

your life will never be the same!

4* no, you do not look fat

in those jeans, bathing suits, socks, or anything else!!!

get a grip & see #1.

5* don't worry ... the perfect mister finds you &
you will get engaged after 8 dates ...

people will think you are crazy

 {it works out beautifully!}

6* "when in doubt, choose the kids ...

there will be plenty of time later to choose work."

(anna quidlen)

i don't know who anna quidlen is ... but

she gives good advice!

7* when you're not "OK" ... it's ok to admit it.

8* never underestimate
the power of a good nap ...
sleep is your friend!

9* always choose joy, happiness, & kindness.
others may not, but you don't have to answer
for their actions ... only yours!

10* you will become your mama...
don't fight it!

so ... what about you?!?!?!
what would you tell your 18-year-old self???